The heroism these men and women displayed then, and in our current circumstances, is not a surprise to me. For the fifteen years I spent coaching and running youth programs in Brooklyn in the 80’s and 90’s, civil servants –especially fire fighters — were an integral part of the coaching cohort I interacted with daily, both in my own neighborhood, and throughout Brooklyn and Staten Island. There was never a doubt in my mind, based on that experience, that they would sacrifice their health, well being and if necessary their lives if called on to rescue people in trouble.
My relationships with many of these individuals, especially those who represented opposing parishes – in CYO basketball- or opposing teams – in sandlot baseball – was not always easy. They were, like me, stubborn, intimidating, over bearing and fiercely competitive and we had many arguments in the midst of closely contested games. But they were also selflessly devoted to their players, with whom they spent countless hours at games and practices, and whatever their private political or racial attitudes, were determined to maintain Brooklyn sports leagues as a place where young people from every neighborhood and racial and ethnic background could find an outlet for their talents.
Never did I see any of them participate in, or tolerate, the slightest amount of race baiting from their players and parents, even though some of them came from neighborhoods, such as Bensonhurst, Bay Ridge or Rockaway, then infamous for racial exclusivity. When push came to shove, they were as fair as they were loyal, and I never felt the slightest hesitation taking interracial teams from Park Slope into gyms or ball fields in all white neighborhoods because I knew we would always be protected.
This kind of quiet heroism, I felt, allowed for more dramatic forms of heroism when circumstances called for it.
It surprised me not at all that some of my fellow coaches ran up the stairways of the World Trade Center to their deaths while other people were running down. Nor would it surprise me to see their counterparts today, some of whom might be their own children, run into flooded buildings to save stranded families or risk being crushed when clearing fallen trees.
This is the ethic of loyalty and sacrifice they grew up among, a New York working class tradition passed on from generation to generation among members of the uniformed services and among more than a few teachers, transit workers and other civil servants.
For quite a while, most of the attention by elected officials and the media has been bestowed upon financial and artistic elites who gravitate to our city. But it is the working people of New York who insure the city’s daily functioning, and in moments of crisis, sacrifice themselves for others so that the city can continue to survive, and when things improve, begin to grow and thrive.
We have always lived among quiet heroes, some of them immigrants working three jobs to support families here and in their home countries, some of them teachers and social workers serving people in the face of deep skepticism and contempt from the powers that be; some of them members of our uniformed services who are asked to risk their lives for the rest of us.
I just wanted to take this moment to show some love for these people and hope you will do so as well.
With a Brooklyn Accent
Publsiehd: Tuesday, 30 October 2012